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Why the Church Needs to Stop Blushing and Start Preaching the Song of Solomon
How Silence on Biblical Intimacy is Sabotaging Christian Marriages—and What We’re Doing About It

We’re living in a world profoundly confused about intimacy.
Our culture? Overexposed, overstimulated.
Reality? Starved for genuine connection and true intimacy.
We're digital hermits, socially anxious, relationally isolated—and the church has stayed mostly silent.
The result?
Loneliness reaching epidemic proportions
Broken marriages quietly fracturing families
Christians silently turning to screens instead of spouses
Here's the brutal truth:
The church has surrendered ground that God commands us to boldly claim.
God didn't give us a polite, sanitized pamphlet on marital intimacy. He gave us the Song of Solomon:
Raw
Passionate
Unapologetically vivid
Yet most churches blush, skip over it, and leave their congregations uninformed and vulnerable.
Meanwhile:
Believers suffer in silence.
Marriages collapse behind closed doors.
Families openly bear the scars.
Enough is enough.
Here’s What We’re Doing (Exclusive to Beehiiv Paid Subscribers):
I'm launching a fearless, verse-by-verse, chapter-by-chapter deep dive into the Song of Solomon. Due to the sensitive nature of these discussions, this exclusive study will be available only to paid subscribers on Beehiiv.
No fluff. No watered-down messages. Just straight biblical truth about:
✅ Real intimacy as God intended✅ Healthy, holy marital sexuality✅ Navigating modern marriage challenges with ancient biblical wisdom
Important Note for Substack Readers:
The introductory content and insights will also be available here on Substack, but the full, detailed study will be hosted exclusively on Beehiiv for paid subscribers due to the sensitive and explicit biblical nature of the material.
Why Now?
Recently, and Aly Dee (RealFemSapien) discussed how feminism, digital isolation, and cultural confusion have created a relational crisis. They highlighted a glaring gap:
The church rarely addresses sexuality clearly, leaving believers vulnerable and marriages at risk.
That ends now.
Our Mission:
This series will equip you to:
Reclaim genuine intimacy in your marriage
Reject cultural lies about sexuality and relationships
Rediscover the transformative power of God's Word
Ready for a change?
If you’re tired of silence and hungry for truth:
👉 Hit subscribe.👉 Share this post widely.👉 Let’s reclaim biblical intimacy together.
It's time the church stops blushing—and starts preaching.
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